My niece is a psychology student and has experienced the therapeutic process, is a deep wise thinker and enjoys having intelligent and introspective conversations. Understanding that this is a huge part of her life, helps me to guide her to see that having a life partner who will be able to speak her language and embrace her innate intuitive nature is important for her happiness. In other words, if there is some area of your life that is of great importance to you, discover if the person you are dating is open to your passion, understands it, or is willing to learn and grow with you. It is also important that you understand and embrace what is important to them as well. For years I tired to ignore this or brush it under the carpet in order to make the wrong person fit for me. I run a spiritual business and continuously tried to make myself fit with men that had no knowledge of my work or the authors I represent. Needless to say, there was no common ground for me.